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Three
10-23-2008, 01:03 PM
Ok so here is the situation my parents went away on week vacation and left the keys to the brand new porche, should I take a ride well of course!

Ok now for the serious question, I play in what I would call a mid to high D league and high C league. When I first moved to Mass my team in the D league was the 1st team to take me on and let me play. I have played for this team for about 4 years now with 3 Championships and 5 trips to the finals. I would not call myself a D level goalie but I play in the league b/c I like playing with this team. This team is kinda of like family. Over the summer and past few weeks I haven’t had fun anymore playing. With the baby coming and being stress at work I feel I am not getting up for the games and kind I feel letting my team down. Now we are 3-1-1 the lost is not mine. I just feel I am not play as well as I should in the games and sometimes winning without even trying hard, but when I lose I get really pissed at myself and want to play better next and really can’t believe I was beat by that team (fill in team name here). My C team I am always up for the game and go out and play balls to the wall for them! We have 1 championship and been to the finals 2 times.

So what is my deal? Why am I not playing hard for one team and playing hard for another. Should I leave the D team and move on?

Rbrownie
10-23-2008, 01:37 PM
Couple weeks may just be a down point. I have had many weeks were I felt like quiting but then one solid game turns things around.

But, if the league sucks then you are just not being challenged enough any more.

But the call is 100% yours.

What league you playing in? Where?

Duff33
10-23-2008, 02:04 PM
Ok so here is the situation my parents went away on week vacation and left the keys to the brand new porche, should I take a ride well of course!

Ok now for the serious question, I play in what I would call a mid to high D league and high C league. When I first moved to Mass my team in the D league was the 1st team to take me on and let me play. I have played for this team for about 4 years now with 3 Championships and 5 trips to the finals. I would not call myself a D level goalie but I play in the league b/c I like playing with this team. This team is kinda of like family. Over the summer and past few weeks I haven’t had fun anymore playing. With the baby coming and being stress at work I feel I am not getting up for the games and kind I feel letting my team down. Now we are 3-1-1 the lost is not mine. I just feel I am not play as well as I should in the games and sometimes winning without even trying hard, but when I lose I get really pissed at myself and want to play better next and really can’t believe I was beat by that team (fill in team name here). My C team I am always up for the game and go out and play balls to the wall for them! We have 1 championship and been to the finals 2 times.

So what is my deal? Why am I not playing hard for one team and playing hard for another. Should I leave the D team and move on?

Minus the baby and the Porsche and this was almost word for word what I was about to post.

Same situation bud, only I don't really have anywhere else to go :(

Three
10-23-2008, 05:29 PM
Couple weeks may just be a down point. I have had many weeks were I felt like quiting but then one solid game turns things around.

But, if the league sucks then you are just not being challenged enough any more.

But the call is 100% yours.

What league you playing in? Where?

I think that is it I am not being challenged in my league !!!

I play Tuesday nights at NESC in the NESHL and Wednesday I play at Navin(marlboro High's rink) in the Hockey Academy League